A buzz in the air, a scurrying in the evening. It was men I saw carrying bouquets, standing at the counter of the chocolate shop, clearly sensing the importance of not arriving empty handed. One savvy young man [SYM] relayed this story: A friend asked the SYM if he needed to do more than just take her to dinner. The SYM replied to the friend, does she work in an office? What, asks the friend, does that have to do with anything? Well, says the SYM, if she works in an office then you have got to send something there, because she has a lot riding on your response to the day vis-a-vis her co-workers. Could not agree more! And SYM was wise!