I so wanted to chime in. Walking down the street, I came upon a couple walking in front of me. She was saying to him, “I’ve asked you, how many times to stop, and you keep doing it. and then when you finally do stop then you act all hurt.” I wanted to give her a thumbs up because I truly understood those words. They then waited, halted the conversation until I passed before she continued and said “How come in this scenario I’m always the as##e in your head?” I kept walking, but I heard him say ‘Well, lets just talk about this scenario ” and she says, “I am talking about this scenario.” And he went on to have more remarks avoiding the issue and she tried to make him hear her, but his arguing made it sound like a lost cause. They were perhaps in their 20’s. Did not sound to me, from my vantage point of age, as if there was room for resolution.